Snellville, GA


Janice Brantle
Jan 1, 2018

Online Dating - Good? Bad?






It’s a new year! Now so many people will be searching for new love! One popular way to find new love is from dating sites. There’s a plethora of sites out there from the free to the paid. When it comes to these dating sites, some philosophies are that if someone pays for a site, then the quality of candidates will be better. I’ve tried a number of sites paid and non-paid and I’m not sure there’s that much of a difference. In my opinion, it’s hard to get to know someone with a computer separating you. Don’t get me wrong, I think internet dating is a good thing but when a person continuously communicates via the computer or text you can’t get to know them very well. It leaves me with the notion that the person is trying to hid something.


So, internet dating – good? Bad? Is it for you?

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